In this blog post, let me share with you the common pitfall traps I’ve found that people who’re caring about spiritual needs tend to fall in.
In my service Healing Readings, I aim at not only providing you with an answer to your question but also delivering spiritual guidance with which you’ll get to experience and learn how to fulfill your soul’s needs. And, since the messages from angels are full of wisdom of having a meaningful time, I’ve been sharing such information on this blog page so that you can make use of it for your spiritual care, which is to grow and satisfy your soul.
Through the communication with my clients though, I began to notice that there’re a few, very tricky, pitfalls that my clients easily fall into – especially those who are seriously working on spiritual growth. It’s not funny that what you’re doing is leading to an adverse result, believing that you’re doing right for yourself.
Knowing where traps exist, you’ll be able to watch out for and avoid falling into them; so I’m going to write about the two significant pitfalls I’ve found so far.
#1 A pitfall hidden in positive thinking and the Law of Attraction
Have you had that moment when you thought that you shouldn’t have felt bad as soon as you felt bad? Or, have you got even depressed because you were disgusted with yourself thinking like “feeling down for something like this?”
Let me revisit here the basics of positive thinking and the Law of Attraction.
If you always complain about what you don’t have and are not grateful for what you do have, there’ll be no happy days which is the consequence of having a happy moment.
To be happy at the moment, you can be grateful for what you have and “positive” about things – being positive and positive thinking would likely be suggested in this kind of situation.
And by the Law of Attraction which is the Law of Vibration, that positive thought is attracting another thought that is its vibrational match. And, those combined thoughts will attract another one; and this will continue until the thoughts will eventually become powerful enough to manifest your desire – this is why it is said that having a positive way of thinking leads you to your dream.
However, it is not that you will not make it because you feel bad or get hurt by someone’s harsh words like “you will be useless outside the company” while looking for a better working environment because of such insensitive people at your current workplace.
It’s perfectly okay that you get upset over offensive words and actions, and very normal that you feel depressed if someone said terrible things to you. In fact, you’ll suffer from another problem if you suppress your emotions.
This pitfall was created by a false belief that being negative is not good; abandon this idea right now, and instead, remember that all of your emotions need to be accepted. Feelings and emotions are, in truth, playing a key role on your spiritual path and directly connected to your raison d’être (if you’re curious to know more about this direct connection, have a read this: How to be more satisfied with your life? ~Life-Purpose Reading).
For this reason, be careful to not lie to yourself by saying or thinking something contrary to your true feelings, or else you’ll unconsciously reject yourself.
And when you’ve got emotional:
- Don’t follow your head
- Let your emotions flow freely – until the flow becomes still
It’s important to let them flow until you feel completely fine. Once suppression went away, you will naturally be able to go forward. If you won’t, you still likely hold some emotions to let go.
#2 A pitfall hidden in “Everything Happens For A Reason”
Are you not forcing yourself to do something unpleasant or even painful – because you believe that the situation is happening for a reason?
“Everything Happens For A Reason” can be restated as assignments that make your soul grow are there in everything. But, those assignments may not be what you expect. For example, you’ve chosen a dance class (as you wanted to learn it for a long time) but the teacher has turned out arrogant and abusive; when students make a mistake, he blasts and repeats harsh words. Your soul’s assignment in this situation is, however, most probably not to bear with his abusive words.
You may think that there must be a reason for you choosing his class or you’ve got to learn something from him. Then, you also likely list up reasons like below for not giving you the permission to quit the class:
- Let me try and see how it’ll go at least for a few months
- His dance skill is great; I shouldn’t get bothered by his personality
- I’ve already paid for ten classes and can’t abandon the tickets
But you’d better ask yourself whether this situation is more of a curse than a blessing or not.
You could learn something in pulling you out of the situation; something like
- Being honest about your feelings
- Saying stop in an assertive way
- Protecting your self-esteem (by respecting your feelings more than money)
This pitfall was created by that “You Must Suffer to Succeed” myth. I don’t say that you will never suffer in your soul’s assignment, however, it must relate you to love anyhow.
If you’re currently sacrificing your self-respect for something, calm down and judge your situation – if you’ve not fallen into this second pitfall.
Though I hope that you’ve not fallen into either of these two pitfalls, I’d recommend you to spare and think for a moment now if you really haven’t. If you have a doubt, read the reasons why these pitfalls were created because knowing them will help you to review what is actually happening within you.
Since I don’t want you to waste time in these pitfalls, I’ve written this article—if you just thought that “everything happens for a reason” so there’s no such thing as wasted time, be careful😉
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